“Stories make us human—binding us together, teaching us, and shaping our reality."
1. Our Brains Crave Stories
Our brains don’t just enjoy stories—they depend on them to understand the world. Reality itself, for each person, is just a mental narrative crafted by the brain. This means we don’t see the world as it truly is but interpret it through a storytelling lens. For instance, when you mistake a shadowy bush for a human figure at night, your brain is weaving a story to make sense of a potentially ambiguous situation.
This storytelling instinct evolved from our survival needs. By constructing narratives, our ancestors could better predict outcomes, understand causes, and plan ahead. These mental "stories" were crucial for organizing experience and ensuring survival in a complex environment. By seeing ourselves as the heroes of our tales, our brains justify our past actions, often casting us in a favorable light even when we make mistakes.
Our urge to understand others’ stories is just as strong. Humans are social creatures, and the ability to predict others' behavior through empathy or theory of mind helped early communities thrive. This urge is so robust that we even attribute human emotions to inanimate objects, like calling a door "mean" for hitting us.
Examples
- Recognizing a shadowy figure in a bush at night is your brain filling in a story.
- Convicts viewing themselves as morally superior shows the mind’s need for justification.
- Projecting human traits on objects, such as a “vengeful” door, reveals our storytelling instinct.
2. We Relate to Flawed Characters
People are drawn to characters with imperfections because they provide a safe lens for exploring our own insecurities. While our brains paint ourselves as heroes, stories let us examine flaws vicariously without threatening our self-image. Flaws in characters stem from skewed beliefs, developed over time and shaped by upbringing, environment, and culture.
Cultural context plays a big role. A Victorian-era character might overly value composure, while an American pioneer might obsess over individuality. These deeply held worldviews, while useful in their context, become restrictive over time. Neuroscientific studies show that when these beliefs are challenged, the brain exhibits stress responses similar to facing physical threats.
Flawed beliefs lead characters to make decisions that reveal internal conflicts. Stevens in The Remains of the Day clings to emotional restraint, which prevents him from pursuing meaningful relationships and achieving his goals. Stories about characters navigating these challenges resonate because they mirror our struggles with conflicting beliefs.
Examples
- Stevens in The Remains of the Day loses opportunities because of extreme self-restraint.
- Neuroscientist Sarah Gimbel’s study showed political views activate stress responses when challenged.
- Victorian values of self-discipline versus pioneer ambitions illustrate cultural programming.
3. Strong Characters Shape Great Plots
Rich, intriguing plots originate not just from creative events, but from characters with distinct personalities and beliefs. A character’s “theory of control”—how they believe they can manage their world—guides their actions, creating tension and momentum. When unexpected events challenge this theory, they must adapt or break.
For instance, in Gone Girl, Amy’s intense desire to protect her reputation leads her actions down dark and unexpected paths, shaping the entire plot. Personality traits also add variety. Each person's blend of traits, such as openness or agreeableness, determines unique reactions to events and choices.
Misunderstandings fuel drama in stories just as they do in real life. Readers connect with characters who misunderstand or misjudge because it mirrors human behavior. In Pride and Prejudice, Darcy's misinterpretation of Jane’s feelings causes significant tension and plot development.
Examples
- Amy’s values in Gone Girl drive the story's darker twists.
- A high-conscientiousness, neurotic figure would tirelessly finish work but fret over every detail.
- Darcy’s misjudgment in Pride and Prejudice disrupts love between Jane and Bingley.
4. Stories Explore Who Someone Really Is
Great stories prompt us to ask, "Who is this person, really?" The true core of a character is often revealed in pivotal moments, especially when their beliefs face unexpected challenges. These moments force introspection and decision-making, peeling back layers to show who they are underneath.
Specific scenarios, often moral or survival-based, highlight character traits. For example, Citizen Kane begins with a mysterious final word, “rosebud,” a clue that sends viewers down the path of understanding who the dying man was. Similarly, Truman in The Truman Show, starts out as someone trusting his environment until small cracks in reality force him to question everything around him.
Surface-level events can serve as metaphors for the deeper “inner plot” of a character’s psychological journey. As characters react in unpredictable ways to these changes, the audience stays engaged to see how the tension resolves.
Examples
- In Citizen Kane, “rosebud” serves as a mysterious key to Kane’s identity.
- Truman’s journey reveals his transition from naivety to clarity about his controlled life.
- Eve taking the apple in the Bible explores selfishness versus group welfare.
5. Gaps Engage the Reader’s Brain
Detailing everything in a story might seem logical, but leaving gaps actually keeps the audience more invested. The human brain constantly seeks to fill in blanks, creating a sense of curiosity. Robert Frost’s line “Two roads diverged in a yellow wood” works because it offers vivid imagery while leaving space for personal interpretation.
Dialogues that convey more than their surface meaning can be particularly engaging. In Brokeback Mountain, Jack’s line, “I wish I knew how to quit you,” conveys hidden longing and conflict beneath its words. Similarly, objects in a story’s setting, like a forgotten receipt or a pair of shoes, tell silent yet powerful stories about characters.
Vivid descriptions further enhance this process. Metaphors, in particular, activate sensory areas of the brain, making narratives feel more immediate and immersive. For example, the phrase “rough day” evokes a tactile sensation alongside emotional weight.
Examples
- Brokeback Mountain communicates Jack’s internal conflict through dialogue.
- Robert Frost’s “yellow wood” vividly paints a scene while leaving narrative gaps.
- Metaphors like “rough day” trigger sensory responses in the brain.
6. The Journey of Status Drives Stories
Stories across cultures often center on status—gaining, losing, or maintaining it. Humans, like animals, are deeply aware of their standing in social hierarchies. Status often appears as an underlying motivator driving characters’ actions, even when disguised as nobler pursuits.
People root for low-status characters, or underdogs, because we see ourselves in them. Research shows people empathize more with those of lower status than higher ones. But the pursuit of status often creates tension, as characters must navigate their ambitions against societal or moral expectations. In King Lear, Lear’s belief in his kingly power is destroyed as his daughters betray his trust.
The conflict between status preservation and acting selflessly provides fertile ground for storytelling. Many tales play on this dynamic, showing characters grappling with their desire for recognition, control, and power.
Examples
- King Lear captures the collapse of Lear’s status-driven worldview.
- Shenzhen University’s study shows empathy is more easily given to lower-status players.
- Competitive video games exploit the same brain mechanisms of goal-driven status pursuit.
7. Stories Shape Beliefs and Behaviors
Stories act as propaganda for ideas, values, or morals. From fables to films, they influence how we perceive right and wrong. In children’s stories like Mr. Nosey, messages are clear: nosy behavior leads to consequences until corrected.
Powerful stories can even drive negative societal changes. Films like The Birth of a Nation perpetuated destructive racial divisions by embedding its propaganda-driven messages through narrative. On the flip side, well-told autobiographies, like The Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass, have awakened empathy and reshaped societal views, proving the transformative power of well-crafted storytelling.
Engaging with a story physically affects the brain. As people become “transported” into narratives, their beliefs become more susceptible to change. This state, where someone forgets their immediate environment, showcases story’s ability to grip and shape perception.
Examples
- Mr. Nosey showcases socially accepted behaviors to children.
- The Birth of a Nation fueled KKK growth and racial divides through storytelling.
- Frederick Douglass’s autobiography helped shift public opinion on slavery.
8. Control Plays Out Safe Experimentation
Stories allow us to toy with loss or shifts of control in a risk-free way. The tension of losing, gaining, or sharing power becomes compelling drama within the safe confines of fiction. For instance, The Secret History shows how the guilt-filled lives of a group of students unravel after a murder.
Such stories let people experience situations that test personal integrity or endurance without facing real-world consequences. They mirror human survival instincts, such as understanding how alliances or betrayals might affect social position.
Examples
- The Secret History delves into control slipping through guilt’s lens.
- Characters acting unpredictably after a loss of power build suspense.
- Readers can "prepare" psychologically by witnessing fictional tension.
9. Storytelling Connects Audiences Deeply
The shared human experience through stories strengthens communal bonds. Whether through historical lessons or emotional character journeys, storytelling continues to be humanity’s most enduring tool for connection.
Examples
- Universally-rooted tropes like underdogs universally foster empathy.
- Shakespeare’s King Lear unveiling status themes resonates centuries later.
- Ancient myths reinforcing collaboration haven’t disappeared; they evolve media forms.
Takeaways
- Craft characters with layered motivations—like opposing wants and needs—to make them relatable and compelling.
- Use imagery and metaphor intentionally; sensory triggers light up the brain, engaging readers emotionally and physically.
- Write with gaps. Allow audiences to mentally fill details based on breadcrumbs dropped subtly.