Why do humans tell stories? To navigate the chaos of the unknown and bring order to their world.
1. Humans explore to understand and overcome fear of the unknown.
Humans and animals share a fundamental drive: the fear of the unfamiliar. Like a rat freezing in a new cage, humans often react to the unknown with apprehension. But once initial fear subsides, curiosity drives exploration, allowing us to navigate, learn, and adapt. This dual reaction to the unknown – fear and curiosity – reflects the tension between safety and growth.
Our environment is divided into two realities: the known, which is familiar and safe, and the unknown, which feels threatening yet full of possibility. Just as a rat cautiously sniffs and scratches its new surroundings, humans use action and thought to investigate the unfamiliar, reducing discomfort and expanding their understanding of the world.
For humans, exploration is not just physical; it’s also intellectual. We theorize, imagine, and hypothesize about anomalies before acting upon them. This ability to explore mentally before diving in enables us to create meaning and merge the unfamiliar into our existing framework of knowledge.
Examples
- A child cautiously approaching a new school but eventually settling in and embracing routines.
- Archaic humans exploring new lands out of necessity, transforming wild territories into civilizations.
- Someone receiving a cryptic package, theorizing about its sender before opening it.
2. Stories are a cultural tool for making sense of emotions and the world.
Stories are far more than entertainment; they are blueprints for understanding and coping with life's emotions and situations. They help us interpret events using meaning rather than just facts. This framework enables us to navigate reality when emotions and logic intertwine.
Emotional meaning varies greatly depending on individual goals, experiences, and cultural context. For instance, our emotional reaction to a piece of cheesecake may shift depending on whether we’re dieting or sharing it with loved ones. Similarly, stories create diverse yet shared interpretations of universal experiences, offering meaning tailored to collective and individual lives.
Ancient myths, such as Greek god legends or Mesopotamian creation myths, served as interpretive guides for unexplainable events. Whether explaining the stars or natural calamities, these shared narratives provided order and clarified humanity's place amidst the chaos of existence.
Examples
- Ancient Egyptians weaving stories around the Nile’s flooding to explain nature’s cycles.
- Fairy tales teaching children moral lessons through characters like Little Red Riding Hood.
- Greek myths about Zeus imparting lessons about power, justice, and consequences.
3. Myths share a universal structure of a hero’s journey.
Across cultures and centuries, myths seem to follow a familiar narrative arc: the hero ventures into the unknown, confronts a challenge, and returns, transformed. This structure reflects humanity's shared experiences and aspirations, from overcoming danger to seeking knowledge and identity.
The unknown often takes on feminine traits, embodying both nurturing and threatening forces – such as the ferocious dragon Tiamat of Mesopotamian myths, or the comforting fairy godmother in fairy tales. The hero stands between this “Great and Terrible Mother” and the “Great and Terrible Father” of established culture, balancing creativity with structure.
The hero's journey could involve slaying monsters, finding treasures, or restoring balance to a troubled world. Through these stories, humans have long encoded lessons about courage, exploration, and blending tradition with progress.
Examples
- Horus rescuing Osiris in Egyptian cosmology to restore order to Egypt.
- King Arthur and the quest for the Holy Grail in Arthurian legends.
- The protagonist of Star Wars embracing their destiny to change the galaxy.
4. Myths model societal structures and personal growth.
Across civilizations, myths reinforced cultural norms and offered lessons for individual behavior. Often linking rulers to divine heroes, myths narrated how leaders should act – not with tyranny, but by balancing chaos and order to sustain societal peace.
At a deeper level, myths spotlight the duality of tradition and innovation. Tales like that of Osiris and Horus symbolize the need for cultures to blend respect for the old with a readiness to embrace change. Horus elevates Osiris’s perspective, marrying wisdom with new vision, ensuring stability and growth for their kingdom.
For individuals, myths inspire heroism – not through rebellion or recklessness but through courage and responsibility to both themselves and their communities. They show how hero figures face challenges, forcing society and individuals alike to adapt and evolve.
Examples
- Myths promoting the idea that kings rule by divine mandate, such as Marduk’s influence on Babylonian emperors.
- Egyptian stories emphasizing harmony in leadership via shared power between Horus and Osiris.
- The moral of Cinderella, teaching humility and persistence amidst hardship.
5. Growing up requires balancing group belonging and individual courage.
As children, we follow our parents' authority. But growing up involves expanding this influence to cultural norms – and eventually learning to question and redefine it in our way. Myths capture this transition, where the hero not only identifies with societal values but also learns to challenge and improve them.
Adolescence often marks a shift from familial authority to peer group loyalty. This rebellion is part of forming an identity within a larger culture. However, complete conformity prevents personal growth. Blind adherence to tradition risks devolving into authoritarianism, while reckless rejection leads to chaos.
Through myths, we learn the importance of balance. Heroes respect and critique culture in equal parts. Successful growth means not only belonging to a community but also daring to take the road “less traveled” for the benefit of oneself and society.
Examples
- Tribal rites of passage transitioning youths from family dependence to community adulthood.
- Myths like Prometheus stealing fire show individual defiance that benefits humanity.
- Personal experiences of exploring different career paths to find fulfillment beyond expectations.
6. Anomalies disrupt but lead to growth.
When the unexpected occurs, human stability falters. Anomalies break the patterns of the familiar, forcing us to reconsider long-held beliefs and adapt to the world in new ways. These surprising moments reshuffle our inner landscape and, if big enough, can transform entire cultures.
Minor disturbances may prompt simple adjustments. For instance, finding an elevator out of order might mean taking the stairs. But major anomalies, like job loss or disaster, require revolutionary adaptations – rethinking our goals, values, and worldviews altogether.
By confronting the unknown, we develop resilience and evolve. Sisyphean as it may feel in the moment, these moments push us toward greater awareness of ourselves and reality.
Examples
- A job loss forcing an in-depth reassessment of career goals.
- Natural disasters reshaping cities and inspiring global climate action.
- Losing loved ones, spurring reflection, and reshaping priorities.
7. Human limits create purpose and meaning.
The Christian myth of Adam and Eve reveals a profound truth: consciousness, and the knowledge of good, evil, life, and death, define our humanity. Being imperfect and mortal gives life depth, pushing us to grow and find meaning within our limitations.
If pain or evil didn’t exist, neither would virtues like kindness or courage. It is our knowledge of suffering and mortality that motivates us to make the most of every moment and connection. Myths often reflect this dynamic tension between limitation and the desire to overcome it.
Within this discord of good and evil, life acquires nuance, responsibility, and, ultimately, significance.
Examples
- The Garden of Eden emphasizing human awareness and moral struggles.
- Greek tragedies where characters confront destiny with dignity.
- The philosophical idea that finite life sparks urgency and creativity.
8. Evil stems from avoiding growth.
Rather than being an intangible, external force, myths often define human evil as the rejection of exploration, growth, and responsibility. Figures like Satan or the cowardly uncle in myths resist meaningful adaptation, sinking into arrogance, complacency, or tyranny instead.
This act of rejection opposes the hero’s choice to acknowledge and explore the unknown with courage. Where heroes evolve, villains regress or distort reality to avoid growth. Myths thus reflect an unmistakable warning for humans: evil festers in stagnation and denial.
Through storytelling, we learn that while evil is always an option, so is redemption through personal effort and adaptation.
Examples
- Satan’s defiance in Christian myth mirrors the human tendency to fear change.
- Amoral tyrants in myths, facing downfall due to their hubris and inaction.
- Ideological blindness perpetuating societal harm, like refusing to address climate challenges.
9. A meaningful life involves charting your own path.
Hiding behind ideology prevents individual growth. Myths stress the value of being the hero of one’s own journey – facing discomfort and uncertainty to create an authentic and meaningful life. Adopting rigid narratives to avoid the unknown weakens creativity and humanity, whereas exploration opens new doors.
Instead of embracing static beliefs or blaming external forces, myths encourage personal responsibility. Real growth arises not through certainty but through active questioning, exploration, and the determination to forge one’s unique path.
The meaningful life balances acknowledging cultural roots with the hero’s spirit of independent discovery.
Examples
- Adventurers leaving their homeland to seek uncharted territories.
- Artists creating groundbreaking work outside established norms.
- Choosing to question societal expectations and follow one’s passion.
Takeaways
- Use curiosity to face fear: When encountering something you don’t understand, explore it rather than avoid it. Growth stems from stepping into the unfamiliar.
- Embrace your individuality: Follow your interests and dreams, even if they challenge cultural norms or expectations.
- Stay flexible yet responsible: Avoid rigid ideologies. Instead, question limiting beliefs and adapt while upholding meaningful values.