Book cover of Prepared by Mike Glover

Mike Glover

Prepared Summary

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Your brain is the ultimate survival tool; train it to stay clear and calm when it matters most.

1. Mental Clarity is Key in Emergencies

Staying mentally focused and calm is your greatest asset during any crisis. Your brain guides decision-making and sets the tone for how you handle challenges. In high-pressure situations, a calm mind can lead to quick, rational actions that save lives.

The fight-or-flight response, driven by the sympathetic nervous system, kicks in during danger, flooding your body with adrenaline and increasing your heart rate. This turbocharges your physical response, but without mental control, it can escalate into panic. Training your brain to handle stress ensures you don't freeze or make poor choices when the situation calls for quick thinking.

Practical training in handling stress helps you shorten the duration of panic. By exposing yourself to manageable discomforts regularly, you learn to stay composed under pressure. Whether it's practicing deep breathing or talking yourself through stress, these methods help reset your nervous system and keep fear at bay during emergencies.

Examples

  • Learning to control your breath by practicing deep inhaling and exhaling when you're overwhelmed.
  • Exposing yourself to small stressors, like camping without amenities or exercising in tough conditions, to build tolerance.
  • Practicing comforting self-talk, such as repeating, "I know what to do," during challenging moments.

2. Train Like You’ll Perform

When disaster strikes, you don't rise to your hopes; you fall to the level of your training. This is why investing time in practicing practical skills that mirror real-life challenges is so essential. Survival skills get locked in through repetition and preparation.

In emergencies, fine motor skills are lost to panic—if not properly trained. People often can't perform basic tasks like dialing 911 or properly using safety equipment. Training in crisis-specific skills helps ingrain them into muscle memory, making them second nature during a critical time.

Realistic, hands-on practice is more effective than just reading or talking about solutions. From physically applying a tourniquet to performing first aid, drilling these tasks develops crucial confidence and readiness.

Examples

  • Regularly practice escape plans like climbing through windows using emergency ladders.
  • Attend workshops or drills such as Stop the Bleed courses to master life-saving techniques.
  • Simulate scenarios like power outages or home evacuations to sharpen your responses.

3. PACE: Prepared Plans Anchor You in Chaos

Having a solid emergency plan makes navigating crises smooth and logical. Using the military-inspired PACE approach—Primary, Alternate, Contingency, Emergency—you can create structured escape or survival plans that adapt to changing circumstances.

By starting with the most obvious plan and layering back-up options, you ensure adaptability. Whether it's determining fire escape routes or planning for blocked exits, this systematic approach leaves no scenario unaddressed. Regularly rehearsing the plan with family or household members reinforces quick, automatic responses in emergencies.

Drills are not just about knowing the route; they help replace panic with clear actions. Even children become empowered to act decisively if you're unavailable by involving them in these trials.

Examples

  • Creating a fire escape plan starting with the front door but adding alternate routes like back doors or windows.
  • Practicing calls to a designated meeting spot so everyone knows where to regroup.
  • Regularly testing ladders, tools, and emergency equipment to ensure functionality and familiarity.

4. Emergency Gear: Everyday Carry Done Right

Being prepared isn’t just about having big bug-out bags; it’s about keeping essential survival tools close on an ordinary day. This is the idea of "everyday carry"—items that ensure you’re self-reliant in unexpected emergencies.

Carry a lightweight, simple kit that includes basics like a first-aid pouch, medications, a flashlight, and identification documents. The point is striking the balance between always having these essentials without making everyday life burdensome.

Items like a reflective blanket or a multi-tool lend versatility without adding weight. Relying on police or paramedics, who might take longer than expected, can be avoided when you're minimally but smartly equipped.

Examples

  • Keeping a compact first-aid kit with bandages, antiseptic wipes, and gloves in your bag daily.
  • Carrying a portable phone charger to ensure constant connectivity in emergencies.
  • Storing scanned copies of important documents on a secure, encrypted online platform.

5. Build Situational Awareness

Practicing awareness helps you spot danger before it escalates. Train yourself to observe exits, escape options, and changes in your environment wherever you go.

Situational awareness is a mindset and a skill set. It’s attuned to subtle cues, like noticing a fire extinguisher’s location in a building or recognizing when objects or people seem out of place. Keeping your wits about you allows faster reactions when trouble arises.

Developing this awareness should become a daily habit. It’s not about living in fear—it’s about being actively engaged in your surroundings.

Examples

  • Pausing to identify exits in restaurants or theaters upon entering.
  • Watching for groups that behave unusually in public.
  • Observing layout changes at your workplace, like construction that could block paths.

6. Conquer the Freeze

The "freeze response" is what happens when fear overtakes you, leaving you unable to act decisively. Overcoming this comes from gradually training your mind to embrace discomfort and control fear.

To battle freezing in chaos, mimic emergencies in controlled settings. Slow, conscious immersion in mildly stressful environments helps rewire your brain toward managing fear effectively. This way, fear doesn't paralyze your actions—it fuels survival instincts.

Breathing techniques are particularly helpful, syncing your body’s stress responses with calm intentionality. It’s a small but mighty tool in managing overwhelming situations.

Examples

  • Rehearsing alarm-triggered actions during family fire drills.
  • Adjusting to discomfort incrementally, like swimming in cold water to sharpen your resilience.
  • Using affirmations while practicing deep breathing during stressful practice scenarios.

7. Focus on Multi-Functional Tools

Simple tools often carry diverse applications and can serve many purposes. Being selective about multi-use items ensures you stay lightly packed but fully prepared.

Examples include emergency blankets that double as signaling devices, durable multitools for countless uses, or storable water filters. Tools that work in varied scenarios reduce unnecessary bulk while giving heightened functionality.

Pack only the essentials, but think creatively about how each item can be maximized in a crisis.

Examples

  • A small compact flashlight doubling as a signal device by strobe.
  • Emergency blankets providing warmth while acting as bright visibility flags.
  • Multi-tools for uses ranging from opening cans to signaling for help.

8. Blend Skills with Supplies

Knowledge is power when it comes to preparation. While equipment is necessary, having skills that extend your basic survival abilities can be life-changing.

Learn practical first-aid abilities, signaling methods, or wilderness survival techniques. These skills become your most reliable tools in cases when gear fails or resources are limited.

Each skill you learn—whether it’s purifying water or stabilizing an injured person—adds exponentially to the effectiveness of your preparedness kit.

Examples

  • Taking wilderness survival courses that teach shelter-building.
  • Learning to treat burns or deep cuts with household or minimal resources.
  • Practicing non-verbal signaling for rescue, using whistles or flashlights.

9. Confidence Through Preparation

Preparedness isn’t about focusing on worst-case scenarios; it’s about cultivating peace of mind. The more prepared you are, the more you feel capable even if things go wrong.

A combination of mental readiness, physical preparation, and rehearsed skills builds unshakeable confidence. When others panic, a prepared person steps in and helps. This sense of agency transforms fear into calm leadership.

Preparedness also reassures loved ones, bolstering their faith in challenging times.

Examples

  • Organizing community workshops to share fire safety practices with neighbors.
  • Creating easy-to-follow safety drills that involve children.
  • Practicing escape plans to foster trust among all family members.

Takeaways

  1. Expose yourself regularly to controlled discomfort to build stress tolerance and stay calm under pressure.
  2. Design and rehearse a personalized PACE emergency plan for multiple scenarios, starting with fire.
  3. Build a slim, practical everyday carry kit and combine it with regular survival skill training.

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