Why does feeling poor often harm us just as much as actually being poor? The truth about inequality runs deeper than differences in income.

1. The Feeling of Poverty is Relative, Not Absolute

Our perception of being poor doesn't necessarily align with our material realities. People often compare their status and possessions to those in their immediate environment, leading to feelings of inadequacy.

Individuals earning comfortably within the middle or upper-middle class can still feel “poor” by comparing themselves to wealthier peers. Take, for example, a doctor earning $200,000 who feels financially fragile when compared to her neighbor, a surgeon making four times as much. This psychological phenomenon is rooted in our need to evaluate our circumstances socially.

Humans lack an internal barometer for determining “sufficiency” in terms of income. Instead, we rely on observations of others around us to define what is “enough.” This comparison-driven mindset reinforces both contentment and dissatisfaction, independent of our real financial condition.

Examples

  • A middle-income household living paycheck to paycheck in an affluent suburb.
  • Louis XIV, although historically wealthy, lacked modern comforts like hot showers and healthcare.
  • Our tendency to adjust financial goals based on neighbors or friends’ buying habits.

2. Feeling Poor Can Impact Mental and Physical Health

Even when basic material needs are met, believing oneself to be financially inferior can deteriorate both mental and physical well-being. The psychological stress tied to perceived deprivation mimics real poverty's effects.

Feeling lower in status increases the likelihood of anxiety, depression, and even heart disease. Chronic psychological stress often manifests physically, exacerbating conditions such as obesity, diabetes, and hypertension. It's not just monetary insecurity but social comparisons that fuel these outcomes.

Experiments with primates show similar reactions. Monkeys subjected to unjust conditions, like receiving inferior treats compared to peers, display immediate frustration and distress. Similarly, humans harbor resentment when their economic or social status feels unfairly low, elevating stress levels and worsening health outcomes.

Examples

  • A study linking perceived status with cortisol levels, a stress hormone.
  • Comparisons with coworkers over wages resulting in workplace dissatisfaction.
  • Societal frustration tied to extreme income disparities like those between billionaires and average citizens.

3. Inequality Pushes Risky Choices

When people feel financially disadvantaged relative to others, they are more likely to take risks, even destructive ones, in the hope of improving their situation.

In one experiment, participants were given random scores reflecting relative wealth and asked to make gambling choices. Those told they were relatively worse off disproportionately chose riskier bets, despite having the same initial resources as others. This mimicry of desperation drives behaviors that prioritize immediate rewards over future benefits, reinforcing cycles of disadvantage.

Such patterns extend to real-world decisions like buying lottery tickets or taking predatory loans. Even subtly feeling “behind” others often drives poor decisions, disregarding long-term financial stability.

Examples

  • Participants opting for immediate financial returns over larger delayed rewards.
  • Gambling patterns increasing among those perceiving themselves as lower-income.
  • Rising trend of high-risk investments during perceived economic inequality.

4. Economic Inequality Divides Society

Income gaps don’t just create classes—they polarize attitudes and politics. People on either economic extreme often fail to empathize or connect with the other.

An experiment involving simulated peer investment found that participants who saw themselves as high performers developed disdain for perceived “low performers.” These divisions extend beyond economics into political tensions, with wealthier groups favoring policies that keep their advantages while discounting broader societal interests.

This divide fractures communities, fosters misunderstandings, and creates opposition across social and political lines. Extremes of wealth and poverty erode trust, stoking resentment that impacts voting behavior and public discourse.

Examples

  • Wealthy participants voting to reduce tax transfers to lower earners in studies.
  • Rising political partisanship linked to income inequality.
  • Social isolation stemming from marked differences within neighborhoods.

5. Wealth Inequality Hurts Everyone’s Health

Communities with higher income inequality experience worse health outcomes across the board, no matter where an individual stands financially within them.

Research indicates that subjective status—a person’s perception of their place on the social ladder—correlates closely with markers like life expectancy. Even middle-class people in unequal societies show higher stress levels and poorer health compared to those in more equitable settings. Middle-tier hierarchy experiments on monkeys confirm similar patterns: fewer hierarchical gaps promote reduced stress levels.

Why does this happen? Socioeconomic stresses often compound in more unequal settings due to constant comparisons and resource divides.

Examples

  • Lower health outcomes of middle-class citizens in high-inequality Singapore vs. low-inequality Nordic countries.
  • Higher stress hormone levels consistently found in laboratory monkeys lower on dominance ladders.
  • Links between chronic stress and reduced health in hierarchical professions.

6. Inequality Distorts Reality Perception

Growing up or living at the bottom of the status ladder can make individuals more prone to interpreting randomness as meaningful or embracing conspiracy theories in an attempt to find order.

For example, studies reveal that people experiencing feelings of powerlessness are far more likely to attribute random patterns—like toast burns or tree bark—to divine or conspiratorial imagery. This need for control reflects the psychological fallout of inequality, as feeling powerless distorts logical decision-making and problem-solving abilities.

As income gaps widen, the broader social implications increase. Without trust in collective systems, people are prone to misinformation and escapism.

Examples

  • Growing belief in religious apparitions during unstable periods.
  • Rising popularity of conspiracy theories stemming from perceived societal inequities.
  • Psychological experiments linking helplessness to random pattern detection.

7. Workplace Inequality Decreases Productivity

Workplaces often reinforce societal inequalities, with steep hierarchies eroding team performance and morale. Excessive pay gaps between managers and employees foster resentment, reduce trust, and harm collaboration.

Studies on professional baseball teams showed that highly unequal pay structures led to poorer outcomes—even the best-paid players performed worse when surrounded by lower-paid teammates. Similar trends occur across industries as stagnating wages accompany rising executive earnings.

Reducing wage disparities promotes teamwork and engagement, improving outcomes for organizations and showing real benefits for all employees.

Examples

  • Underperforming high-pay-gap baseball teams in Matt Bloom’s study.
  • High exec payouts paired with stagnated worker salaries seen globally.
  • Increasing worker dissatisfaction in unequal corporate structures.

8. Social Comparisons Amplify Struggles

People often unconsciously measure self-worth through comparisons. Social media, workplace interactions, and neighborhood living can amplify the dissatisfaction gap.

These habitual comparisons make people less likely to appreciate gains and achievements. Psychological studies find that individuals often react more strongly to minor relative losses than substantial absolute changes. Learning to shift focus away from others and toward personal markers promotes better emotional outcomes.

By consciously choosing healthier comparisons—focusing on personal progress versus neighbors—it’s possible to lessen some psychological burdens inequality exacerbates.

Examples

  • Social media driving “relative humiliation” through exposure to curated success stories.
  • Local economic tension over homeownership trends in affluent areas.
  • Varying happiness levels among people who focus inward rather than outward.

9. Addressing Inequality is a Collective Responsibility

Though income disparity feels overwhelming, small individual mindset shifts coupled with larger policy changes offer hope. From political action to self-awareness, addressing inequality requires efforts at all levels.

Large-scale reforms, such as fair tax structures or living wage policies, are necessary systemic solutions. But change also begins personally. Reducing harmful comparison habits or advocating for universal benefits can ease stresses and help combat broader inequalities on personal and communal scales.

Examples

  • Advocating for progressive redistribution measures like affordable healthcare.
  • Choosing peers or communities who foster positivity.
  • Learning to value growth-oriented, personal progress metrics over external validation.

Takeaways

  1. Learn to identify when you're comparing yourself to others and shift your focus toward your personal growth and achievements instead.
  2. Advocate for fairer systems, such as redistributive taxation or living wage reforms, to combat income gaps at societal levels.
  3. Surround yourself with supportive and like-minded communities that reduce feelings of inadequacy rather than heighten comparisons.

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